I'm sorry. I hate to be *that* guy, but this seems like a lot of whining to me. You want to see more rides posted? Become a Ride Leader (if you aren't one already) and post some! There really is no special skill required, other than an ability to herd cats. Or do some rides, make some friends, and organize small rides among yourselves! I've lived here 3 years, and I can honestly say that after doing a couple of BRBC rides, it has been very rare that I can't find *someone* to do a ride almost any day. In fact, I sometimes have to pass on rides. This is a *club*, not a tour business, and it is incumbent upon the members to make it successful... or not.
As far as email notifications go... really? Is it that hard to check the website if you want to find ride? If you need an email to remind you to ride, perhaps you don't like to ride as much as you think. And if you check the website and can't find a ride that suits your needs and skills, well... see the above point.
This isn't rocket science or thermonuclear engineering, folks.